My fiancée and her 12-year-old daughter moved in over the summer since her lease was up. We were in counseling and seemed to be on the same page regarding our daughters. My daughter has never had a problem with hygiene or cleanliness because her mother and I made sure she could take care of herself. My fiancée is failing in that regard.
I lived with my own mom, who was a single mom, one aunt who was a someday mom, and my grandmother, who we called Nana, who was an always mom. Another pregnant aunt I shared a bed with for a while, an almost mom. There were other moms who visited, other aunts and cousins, and friends and bridge partners of my Nana's coming over for gossip, plus egg salad sandwiches with the crusts cut off.