#politeness-performance

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10 hours ago

Psychology says people who stack plates and tidy up before leaving a restaurant aren't being polite - they're managing a deep anxiety about being perceived as the kind of person who leaves a mess, and the compulsion often traces back to a single childhood household rule they were never allowed to question - Silicon Canals

Compulsive tidying in public spaces often stems from childhood rules that create anxiety about how others perceive us.
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