#healthy-boundaries

#healthy-boundaries

Codependency is not entirely bad. Much of what we hear about codependency frames it as a bad thing that we should get rid of or avoid at all costs. But it's possible to be in a codependent relationship without needing to leave it. At times, codependency is a way that we are trying to help someone or show love.

I appreciate the ways others love me, no matter how limited. I am letting go of expecting-or demanding-that they love me exactly as I want them to. I am letting go of wanting others to prove that they love me. At the same time, I can always ask for the kind of love I long for. I am learning to trust others when the record shows they can be trusted, while I, nonetheless, commit myself to being trustworthy regardless of what others may do.

We've been trained for years, if not decades, to go at a certain pace, react fast, and constantly strive for success. But at what cost? Workplace culture can breed constant reactivity, where multiple demands dominate our days. The question is about balance: how do we sustain good energy and personal growth throughout our careers, remaining curious and creative without burning out? We're actual humans needing a more inclusive, balanced approach to live well. That's really been the key theme, regardless of industry or level

"Clinging to the 'Love conquers all' ideal can sometimes keep people stuck in relationships that actively harm their self-esteem, well-being, and safety."

Identifying the conflict and your needs enhances self-awareness, providing clarity on the core issues and necessary objectives to resolve interpersonal disputes.