When we first met, 12 years ago, my husband and I didn't waste any time in starting the sexual part of our relationship. He warned me he was a sex addict, and I am enthusiastic about sex. On our first night together I was aware of some erectile dysfunction he wasn't entirely hard and benefited from holding himself when penetrating me though this didn't stop us reaching climax. We joked about how many times I would orgasm and neither of us seemed inhibited.
ED medications can be very helpful in supporting spontaneity, especially when used strategically. For example, tadalafil (Cialis) is often favored because it has a longer window of action - up to 36 hours.