Delivering homemade treats may unintentionally offend, as health considerations like diabetes should be acknowledged. A considerate response to dietary restrictions recognizes the intent but prioritizes health. When uninvited guests arrive after a move, their politeness does not necessitate the host's obligation to cater to them. A host can clarify their situation without feeling responsible for ensuring guests' comfort when caught off guard. Proper communication can mitigate misunderstandings and maintain relationships. Ultimately, navigating these scenarios requires balancing thoughtfulness and awareness of others' circumstances.
Miss Manners recommends saying, 'I'm sorry to hear that. Thanks for letting me know' and then tossing the conversation in the memory dustbin.
The lady with diabetes spent the intervening time fuming over the thoughtlessness displayed in putting her health at risk.
Politeness does not require you to make guests feel welcome if the invitation you were unaware of caught you unprepared.
Explaining to guests that you weren’t responsible for welcoming them is challenging when you were not aware of the invitation.
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