"I attended a music festival, where I wore pasties instead of a top. While there, I actually ran into a group of co-workers, who all had a good laugh at seeing me in such a state of undress. When I return to work, should I address the incident in any way, or should I pretend it never happened? Do I just laugh it off? I am pretty sure people will spread this story around the office, and it was obviously a bit embarrassing."
"GENTLE READER: Let them have their laughs. Presumably you followed the festival directive: scantily clad for maximum airflow. Unless there are even more embarrassing photographs on social media, you need not submit your off-work life to their judgment. And if there are, Miss Manners suggests you delete them immediately. DEAR MISS MANNERS: I am in the process of searching for a home for myself, my spouse and our young child."
A festival attendee wore pasties and was seen by co-workers who laughed, causing embarrassment. The recommended response is to let coworkers have their laughs, not to address the incident at work, and to delete any more embarrassing photos from social media. A family searching for a slightly larger home can prioritize usable space for the child by converting a living/dining room into a playroom and using a spare bedroom as a study. Guests may reasonably be entertained in the kitchen when square footage is limited. Etiquette does not require specific rooms; practicality and family needs should guide layout.
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