The Mimicry Trap
Briefly

Mimetic desire influences individual aspirations as people often adopt desires based on others' longings rather than their own. This phenomenon manifests across various contexts, from childhood to adulthood, where observation of peers can generate new interests and pursuits. In a social media-driven environment, desires are increasingly affected by exposure to curated images, leading to social comparison and diminished well-being. The desire rooted in aligning with social norms and expectations impacts identity formation and life choices significantly, often beyond conscious awareness.
Mimetic desire suggests we learn what to desire by observing others, not simply their behaviors, but their longings. Watching someone pursue something passionately often triggers a similar pull within us.
This form of desire is deeply rooted in human nature, reflecting our inherent tendency to align ourselves with social norms and expectations to gain acceptance and belonging.
Once you notice them, you begin to see them everywhere. [...] Mimetic desire guides our decisions subtly yet powerfully, shaping identities and life paths in ways we seldom fully comprehend.
Passive browsing of social media is strongly associated with increased social comparison and reduced well-being, particularly when users frequently see luxurious experiences and lifestyles.
Read at Psychology Today
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