Choosing Simplicity Over Artificiality

"The very idea of simplicity is quickly relegated to simple-mindedness, a lack of much-needed sophistication, and an anomaly in the modern world, all of which suggests that simplicity cannot empower us as we face life's difficulties. However, simplicity may be the single most important ingredient for truly valuing who we are and the dignity of the life we create."

"An Old Consideration An ancient definition of the word simplicity is "unattached to artificiality." To understand simplicity, we need to be clear about the nature of artificiality and its opposite. We can begin accepting that what is artificial is fake or an imitation. Hence, when we separate from what is artificial, we have the opportunity to attach to what is genuine, real, and original."

"Glamour. Glamour is often an expression of the artificial. Examples include living in a luxurious home, traveling to exotic places, attending exclusive events, driving high-end luxury automobiles, and wearing designer clothing. The message is "I'm not ordinary." Being the recipient of adoration, admiration, or respect. Of course, there's nothing wrong with being respected. But they can become artificial substitutes for genuine self-acceptance, especially when we carry the intention of being impressive."

At a time when technology and attachment to devices accelerate life, simplicity risks being dismissed as simple-mindedness or irrelevant. Simplicity means being unattached to artificiality, enabling separation from imitation and attachment to what is genuine and original. Artificiality exerts powerful seduction through glamour, admiration, and excessive acquisitions that substitute for authentic self-acceptance. Examples of artificial glamour include luxurious homes, exotic travel, exclusive events, high-end cars, and designer clothing. Adoration, admiration, and respect can become artificial replacements for inner dignity when pursued to impress. Excessive acquisition can serve as an artificial way to feel worthy rather than fostering true self-regard.

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