Ensure that both of you have hobbies that are done without the other. You married the individual that you met so long ago. You want to protect their sense of self because changing that core feature can be catastrophic.
It took some time to realize I had to consider him when making plans. My social life is more active than his, and I would say yes to drinks and dinners and weekends without asking him first - not as a permission, but as a courtesy.
#marriage-challenges #individuality-in-marriage #consideration-in-relationships #physical-health-differences
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