First, talk to your neighbors and ask for their help. If they're complaining to you about the state of your lawn, explain your situation and solicit their advice. Ask them to advocate on your behalf to the HOA.
I'd give up on trying to reason with the lawn care company. It's unclear why the company owner is taking such an extreme stance. Even if there's more to the story, his contract is with the HOA.
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