A moment that changed me: I was 16, gay and bullied for it. Then my father wrote to the Guardian

Growing up gay in the 90s was particularly challenging for the author, who faced bullying and societal stigma despite finding support within their loving family. At 16, they lived with the fear of coming out publicly, aware of the dangers and discrimination faced by gay individuals at the time. Their supportive yet realistic parents acknowledged the hardships that lay ahead, highlighting societal perceptions that framed being gay as a threat. Their experiences were compounded by a report in the media that reflected societal prejudices, which resonated deeply with the author.

It was also a political household; my dad, in particular, was always active in expressing his beliefs and principles.

Even when I tried to balance this with the idea of finding someone to love, I knew that any relationship I had would not be seen as worthy of legal equality.

Read at www.theguardian.com