"Everybody knows that parties are for fun and celebration. Winter holiday parties are definitely different than everyday festivities. More often than not, even with detailed plans and extra help, these holiday celebrations can be stressful and exhausting. Almost all celebrations start by making a list and then inviting your chosen guests who will be asked to respond yes or no to your invitation."
"And so the party begins at the stated time printed on the invitation. Of course some people will be late and some people will not be able to attend. In most situations, chaotic interactions will naturally begin as family members bring up past problems. Talking about what went wrong sometimes seems to help resolve problems left over from the previous holiday party. Close feelings are expressed and serious concerns discussed."
"At home the party is discussed. The good, the bad and the surprises are reflected on. The planners evaluate how well they did given the reactions from the party-goers. Opinions and suggestions are collected for next year's events. The planners are grateful that almost everyone was pleased and that the special food dishes and the activities went well. The children and some adults wanted more, which could be a serious problem."
Holiday celebrations require lists, invitations, and decisions about guests, activities, food, and location. Invitations and guest selection often consume time, thought, and patience and can leave uninvited people feeling hurt or unimportant. Parties commonly begin punctually but accommodate late arrivals and absentees. Family interactions can become chaotic as past problems surface, and discussing past hurts sometimes helps resolve lingering issues. Food, presents, and activities provide enjoyment, yet guests often feel exhausted afterward. Hosts evaluate reactions, collect opinions and suggestions, and feel grateful when most guests are pleased; however, children's and some adults’ desires for more can create follow-up concerns.
Read at Psychology Today
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