"Are you thinking about your girlfriend's old breasts erotically? Or is this more of a distressing recurring thought that you don't want? I ask because "driving me insane" can absolutely be a nonserious colloquialism, but, in case it isn't, I don't want to dismiss the language you're using. If you're genuinely worried about your mental health, go ahead and start the process of finding a therapist."
"Otherwise, you like the kind of breasts your girlfriend had when she had implants. As in, you really, really, really like them. That's pretty typical. There's a reason so many women get them, especially those with jobs where appearance and wide-reaching attractiveness are crucial. Even people who aren't particularly into breasts tend to find themselves enraptured by a great rack. Your appreciation is a perfectly common reaction to having experienced a sexual relationship"
A man remains deeply in love with his girlfriend but frequently thinks erotically about the breasts she had when she had implants. He conceals these feelings to avoid hurting her and wonders whether his thinking signals a problem. If the thoughts are genuinely distressing or impairing, pursuing mental health support is advised. Strong attraction to a previous aesthetic, including implanted breasts, is a common reaction after sexual experience with that body type. Many women choose implants for appearance and attractiveness. The man is encouraged not to harshly judge himself for his natural preferences.
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