Luis and the narrator have been together for 12 years, facing ups and downs in their sexual relationship, particularly after Luis's depression diagnosis. His medication affects his libido, leading them to explore sexual opportunities outside their relationship, which the narrator does not find hurtful. Despite this, the narrator remains deeply attracted to Luis and hopes that changes in his medication will restore his confidence and desire. Their bond as best friends underpins their relationship, but they face challenges in intimacy and balance in their lives.
Luis and I met on Grindr 12 years ago, shortly after his move to the UK and my split from my ex-husband. Our intimate moments have decreased over time.
Luis's mental health challenges have affected his libido, leading to a reliance on medication that has changed our sexual dynamic. My attraction to him remains strong despite this.
I hope a decrease in Luis's medication will restore his libido and body confidence, allowing us to reconnect intimately as we navigate the complexities of our relationship.
Luis is loving and kind, dedicating himself to others, yet often neglecting his own self-care, which impacts our home life and relationship.
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