They met on a dating app while she was enjoying being single; he asked her to be his girlfriend after one month and framed her freedom as positive. An ex-boyfriend had been jealous and controlling, policing her outings and underwear, which made being with someone who celebrated her sexuality refreshing. Emotional safety with Finn allows sexual experimentation and playful power dynamics that never feel uncaring. Finn usually initiates, while she becomes turned on through intimacy, and both describe choosing each other rather than being passive in relationships. They plan to move in together and embrace domestic life.
The safety I feel with Finn means the sex we have feels safe, too, and we can explore freely. We experiment with power dynamics, and I find the danger exciting, but it never feels like Finn is dominant in an uncaring way. He once said, I don't want to act too dominant in case you think I don't love you, which I thought was very romantic.
My ex-boyfriend was jealous and controlling and wanted to keep me in a box. He felt threatened that I had exes and had had sex with others. He hated me staying out late and questioned why I put on nice underwear for work, suspecting that must mean I was sleeping with a colleague. So it was refreshing to be with someone who celebrated my sexuality.
He's playful he'll put his hands down my pants when we're out! I've heard that there are two ways of experiencing desire. Some people can just be doing the washing up and want to have sex that's Finn. The other is becoming turned on once you start being intimate that's me. So Finn is usually the one to initiate sex, but I always want it.
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