"I'm a bisexual woman in my late 20s. I've dated about the same number of women and men, and there's one thing I hate doing in bed. I hate performing oral sex on women (for what it's worth, I don't particularly enjoy receiving it either). There's something about the smell and taste that really, really grosses me out. I don't think it's just a one (or two) time thing because I've gone down on around 15 women, and it's gross every time."
"I don't mind performing oral sex on men (I've only encountered one gross-smelling dick before), and most guys are thrilled not to have to go down on me, but women react very differently. I've been called a "pillow princess," a fake bisexual, a bad feminist, etc. when I mention I don't really like oral sex. I now exclusively date bi women, and they're less judgmental than lesbians, but some are still put off."
"Dear How Many Licks, Are you familiar with dental dams? They're a nonporous sheet of material that you can place over internal genitalia (vulvas and anuses) and are usually found in a safer sex context. I think they may be useful for you. If they can prevent the spread of infectious bacteria, they can prevent your taste buds from coming into contact with vaginal secretions, which may solve your issue."
A bisexual woman in her late 20s experiences strong disgust at the smell and taste of vulvas and cannot tolerate performing oral sex on women despite having gone down on about 15 partners. She has no similar aversion to performing oral sex on men and prefers making out, breasts, and fingering or mutual masturbation; she dislikes strap-ons. She faces negative judgments and labels when she declines to perform oral sex and dates women who are less judgmental. Dental dams are described as nonporous sheets that can be placed over vulvas and anuses to block taste and contact with secretions, which may resolve her problem.
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