"Picture this: I'm at a family barbecue last summer, watching my uncle corner my twenty-something cousin about cryptocurrency for forty-five minutes. The poor kid's eyes glazed over somewhere around minute five, but my uncle, completely oblivious, kept going. He even pulled out his phone to show screenshots of his portfolio. I watched this unfold thinking about how many times I'd witnessed similar scenes at family gatherings, coffee shops, and office break rooms. The disconnect between generations is about how we communicate. After years of observing these interactions and, honestly, catching myself falling into some of these patterns, I've noticed clear differences between conversations that bridge generational gaps and those that widen them."
"You know that moment when someone mentions they're thinking about changing jobs, and suddenly they're trapped in a thirty-minute monologue about your entire career trajectory? Yeah, that needs to stop. My father spent thirty years in sales management, and while his experience taught me invaluable lessons about corporate dynamics, I learned something equally important from watching him at parties. The most engaged conversations happened when he asked questions first and shared experiences second."
Generational communication often falters when one person dominates with unsolicited lectures, comparisons, or technical demonstrations that overwhelm others. Asking questions before offering experience-centered advice encourages engagement and reduces distance. Avoid opening with 'When I was your age' or other era-based comparisons that invalidate current experiences. Provide wisdom succinctly and match timing and dosage to the listener's needs. Demonstrate empathy by focusing on what aspect of the situation the other person seeks to understand. Small conversational adjustments — asking first, sharing second, and avoiding one-sided monologues — bridge gaps and foster meaningful intergenerational exchange.
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