Psychology suggests you will always push away good things if your subconscious mind doesn't believe you deserve them - and most people who do this don't recognize it as pushing, they just wonder why nothing good ever seems to stay - Silicon Canals

"Self-sabotage is a pattern of behaviors that interfere with your goals, well-being, or relationships - even when part of you genuinely wants things to improve."

"I thought Donna was being unreasonable. I thought work was just demanding. I thought everyone else was the problem. Never occurred to me that I was the one setting fire to my own life."

Self-sabotage can undermine personal success and relationships, often without conscious awareness. Individuals may achieve goals but then engage in behaviors that lead to failure, as seen in the case of a man who lost a promotion due to self-destructive actions. This pattern stems from the subconscious mind attempting to protect individuals, leading them to believe external factors are to blame. Recognizing this behavior is crucial for personal growth and improving relationships, as it reveals the internal conflicts that hinder progress.

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