"I am a 56-year-old widow. My husband died two years ago, and I am now in a long-distance relationship with a 55-year-old man. We have been dating for six months. Our sex life is really good, but he will not give me oral sex. I love pleasuring him but when he doesn't reciprocate I feel disrespected and as if something is wrong with me. When I broached the subject, he said he wanted to wait to see if we got serious enough for marriage"
"You do not have to lose him. You take his lack of reciprocation to be a mark of disrespect, and it may well be, but try to understand that different people have different sexual preferences, and that in your new partner's case he probably just doesn't like giving oral sex and never will. At 55 years old he has developed a set sexual style that does not include everything you love."
A 56-year-old widow in a six-month long-distance relationship with a 55-year-old man enjoys a strong sexual connection but feels hurt because he refuses to give her oral sex. He promises to wait until they are serious or married, though he has given oral sex in past relationships. She plans to stop giving him oral sex to set a boundary but fears losing the relationship. She values constant physical affection and cuddling, compares this partner to her late husband’s different pattern of affection, and worries whether this unmet preference signals disrespect or incompatibility.
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