"During penis-in-vagina sex, he usually comes within less than 30 seconds of penetration. This has been the case since our very first hookup. When he came so quickly the first time, I was surprised, but he was a "PIV virgin," so I didn't catastrophize. I assumed that with time and desensitization, he would last longer in bed. Well, he hasn't. Ten years later, he still comes within just a few thrusts, and that's when sex ends."
"While we have great communication about our needs in every other area of the relationship, talking about sex has retained a certain awkwardness for us both. Thankfully, he's great about bringing me to climax before PIV with oral (he's amazing at it) or touching, and he seems very satisfied with the order of things, but the abrupt end leaves me feeling physically restless since penetration is what feels best to me. I know I'm only one to two minutes away from climaxing with him."
I am a heterosexual woman in my early 30s, married monogamously for ten years to a husband who is my best friend. During penis-in-vagina sex he typically ejaculates within less than 30 seconds of penetration, a pattern present since our first hookup. He lasts five to ten minutes with oral sex and brings me to climax reliably before penetration, but penetration itself ends abruptly and leaves me physically restless since it feels best. I can reach orgasm within one to two minutes of penetration and have tried indirect hints and edging, but he ejaculates as soon as thrusting resumes. We have strong communication in other areas but find talking about sex awkward, and I worry about directly stating my desire or suggesting approaches like pacing, the squeeze method, or using toys.
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