"When we met, he said he was a total top, and there was no way he would bottom; he just didn't like it. I always said that I was versatile, but bottoming isn't super comfortable for me, though I would tolerate it. Lately, it's been harder to tolerate, to the point that I would call myself a top/side now. Even more recently, my partner hooked up with an older man whom he bottomed for."
"I was upset at first because he said he would never bottom, and the few times I have asked him have been met with disapproval. But then this older man came along and convinced my partner to give it a shot. He said he really, really enjoyed it, but is not willing to do it with me. He said it was a "daddy/son" dynamic that I just can't provide."
Two men in their mid-30s are in an open relationship. One partner previously insisted he was a total top and would not bottom. The other identified as versatile but finds bottoming uncomfortable and now considers himself a top/side. The originally rigid top recently bottomed for an older man and reported enjoying the experience while refusing to bottom for his primary partner, citing a "daddy/son" dynamic. This has caused the primary partner to lose sexual interest and reconsider a potential proposal. A couples therapy appointment is scheduled. The situation raises concerns about compatibility, sexual honesty, boundaries, and the need to discuss needs and limits.
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