It's One of the Most Popular Sex Positions of All Time. But It Leaves Me Dumbfounded.
Briefly

Many individuals have specific sexual positions or acts that do not provide them with much stimulation, despite others enjoying them. It is important to recognize that personal preferences can vary widely and do not indicate abnormality. Engaging in sex with partners who prefer certain positions is common, and it is okay to have different preferences. If open to the missionary position, exploring various approaches may enhance enjoyment, especially when prioritizing mutual enthusiasm for all sexual activities.
Most of us have certain positions or acts that we aren't particularly stimulated by, but which everyone else seems to love. So the short version is that you're not a freak.
You can remind yourself that lots of folks have details, whether about sex or anything else, like media consumption or dietary preferences, that they feel obligated to impose on others as norms.
If you're still open to missionary, then you've got several possible approaches. If you and your partner have a philosophy of only wanting to participate in sex that is a 100 percent enthusiastic.
Engaging in sex with partners who love what leaves you less than enthused is common, and it's okay to have varying preferences.
Read at Slate Magazine
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