"There's a special kind of panic that sets in this time of year. As you look back on the past 12 months, the reality of your dating life becomes painfully clear. Suddenly, you remember that you didn't go on a single date. Not even one. Either that, or you get a nightmare-like flashback to all of your bad encounters, like that Hinge match who introduced you to the meaning of "false intimacy.""
"It's likely why the " 12 Dates of December " challenge is going viral on TikTok. The idea is to go on 12 more dates before the end of the year - even if it's tiring, and even if it kind of sucks. For some, the goal is to make up for lost time. For others, it's a push to keep the hope alive and find love before 2026. For everyone else? It just sounds like fun."
A viral TikTok challenge encourages people to attempt 12 dates in December to accelerate dating activity before year-end. Participants take a proactive approach to swiping and messaging to secure multiple dates, often sharing recaps of each outing. Motivations range from escaping dating ruts and romanticizing daily life to seeking meaningful connections or simply having fun. The trend resurfaced after earlier attempts in 2023 and features creators documenting progress and setbacks. The format functions as exposure therapy for some and an exercise in perseverance for others. Observers and experts question whether the rapid pace produces genuine connections or emotional fatigue.
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