Four months after a serious car accident and ongoing rehabilitation, sexual activity with the husband was paused. During recovery, the husband began heavily using pornography, with browser history showing adult websites and monthly spending exceeding $1,000. The wife attempted gentle sexual intimacy (oral and manual) but was rebuffed; the husband cited concern about straining her body and accused her of spying when confronted about his porn use. Raising the issue was appropriate. Solo sexual activity is acceptable if it does not displace coupled sex. High pornography expenditures warrant financial and relational discussion.
You were not wrong to discuss this with your husband. You made a fair assumption that his sexual attention is being taken up by his prolific porn-viewing, which affects you directly. If he were still having sex with you at a frequency that you find satisfying, while at the same time maintaining his porn routine, I'd probably advise you to lay off. Let people have their solo time.
But when the solo time ends up unexpectedly taking away from coupled sex, that definitely warrants a conversation. And so does a $1,000-plus monthly porn bill. I have no idea what your financial situation is, but that's a significant amount of money by any measure, and, assuming you share finances
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