The questioner finds his husband Leon in bed with another woman, which conflicts with previous assumptions about their monogamous relationship. Leon identifies as bisexual and occasionally engages in threesomes with men. The author argues that if this is the only issue, it may not be grounds for ending the marriage. However, it raises important discussions about boundaries concerning separate encounters and the use of their shared home for such activities, suggesting that clearer communication is necessary.
If that is the only issue you have here, I suggest you fall back and let him do his thing. Leon is bi, so it should not be earth-shattering when he does bi things, even if it wasn't explicitly telegraphed before.
If your arrangement doesn't specifically allow for separate encounters (with partners regardless of their gender), that is, at minimum, something to discuss.
You certainly don't have to put up with that if you aren't comfortable with it. There is also Leon's using your shared home for sex with others, which again, should have been discussed ahead of time.
Maybe your home is completely off limits; maybe Leon gives you a heads up so that you know not to interrupt when he has someone over.
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