"I have always identified as bisexual, but sex with my husband has been leaving me dysphoric. I don't feel like I can separate out my identity from the idea of having sex with men in general."
"I find myself mostly fantasizing about sex with women. This is difficult given my marriage. I am planning to tell my husband I want to put a moratorium on sex while I figure out what's going on with me."
"There's a part of me that's terrified this is a phase, and I might be putting cracks in my marriage for nothing, and part of me that's terrified of going through life unsatisfied."
A nonbinary individual is grappling with their sexuality and attraction to men, feeling dysphoric during sex with their husband. They identify as bisexual but struggle to connect with their attraction to men, leading to a desire to explore fantasies with women. The individual plans to discuss a temporary cessation of sex with their husband while seeking clarity on their feelings. They express fear about the potential impact on their marriage and uncertainty about their evolving identity, despite finding therapy helpful.
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