"I had a breakup with my girlfriend of eight years about two years ago. It had been my longest relationship and I didn't feel ready to date right away. During the last two years, howver, I've learned more about my sexual interests, and I've discovered something about myself I both love-and am terrified to share with future partners. I really like receiving anal sex and prostate stimulation. I anally masturbate regularly and can even have prostate orgasms that cause me to ejaculate."
"Recently I've been feeling lonely doing this without a partner and want to get back to dating, but I'm not sure how to proceed. I don't want to exclusively do anal or prostate stuff but I think it's going to be a major part of my sex life now, and I don't know how or when to discuss this with potential partners. How do I discuss this with people I date and how early is too early to bring up something like this?"
A man ended an eight-year relationship two years ago and delayed dating while exploring sexual interests. He discovered a strong preference for receiving anal sex and prostate stimulation and achieves prostate orgasms during anal masturbation. He now feels lonely and wants to date but fears revealing this interest to future partners and wonders when to disclose it. Being direct and disclosing anal and prostate preferences early allows potential partners to self-select and can prevent mismatched expectations. In many gay communities these preferences are often disclosed very early, and pegging is a familiar practice that many people know and enjoy.
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