The article discusses a letter from a woman whose former best friend betrayed her by having an affair with her husband. After reconciling with her husband, they receive notification that the friend has established substantial college funds for their daughters. Despite feeling this gesture is manipulative, the writer worries about the consequences of refusing the money. Prudence's advice suggests that accepting the funds could ease future financial burdens, while emphasizing the importance of setting boundaries to avoid rekindling contacts with the betrayer.
"It's all of a piece that a woman who would sleep with her best friend's husband would also think it appropriate to set up college funds for the betrayed friend's daughters, presumably to launder away her guilt."
"The money won't undo that, but it will make your life easier when the tuition bills come due. If you're able to think to yourself, 'Damn right, you owe me!' then take the money and don't dwell on its origin."
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