"I am an untraditional person, and I wanted a color other than white, which made both moms lose their minds. From the moment I mentioned that I didn't see myself in a white gown, the tension in the room was obvious. Every dress I liked was met with criticism, and instead of feeling excited and supported during what I imagined would be a special bonding experience, I felt judged."
"Wedding stylists suggest that when you go to try on dresses, you take people with you who are good listeners, who are thinking about you and not themselves, and who give you space to think. Clearly, that didn't happen. You can wear whatever color dress you decide. Next time you go to the bridal salon, take someone supportive with you. Work on managing the moms as a separate issue. This will be a lifetime job. Stick to your beliefs; this is your wedding, after all."
A bride wanted a nontraditional-colored wedding dress and faced strong disapproval from her mother and future mother-in-law, who expected white. The mothers criticized every dress she liked, creating tension and leaving her feeling judged instead of supported. Advice recommends bringing listeners who prioritize the bride, give space to decide, and think about the bride's preferences when dress shopping. The bride has the freedom to wear any color she chooses and should return with supportive companions. Managing mothers' expectations is recommended as an ongoing, separate task to protect personal choices and wedding happiness.
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