"My husband has recently been talking nonstop about moving out of Los Angeles and starting over in the suburbs. He says he's tired of the traffic, the noise, the cost of living basically all the things that make L.A. what it is and he wants more space, a yard and what he calls a calmer life. The problem is, I love where we live. My job is here, my friends are here and, honestly, I'm energized by the city."
"This is a tough one. Someone is going to need to compromise. One thing I know is that there are many suburbs around Los Angeles, and you may be able to find a neighborhood that you both like, one that is not too far away but that affords a bit more space and comfort. It is worth driving around and looking. If you at least offer to consider his idea, it may open him up to reconsidering yours."
A married couple faces conflict because one partner wants to leave Los Angeles for suburban space, quieter surroundings, and lower costs, while the other loves the city for work, friends, and energy. Repeated arguments and avoidance of the topic have increased tension and the risk of long-term resentment. The advice offered emphasizes that someone must compromise and suggests exploring nearby suburbs that provide more space without being far from the city. Considering each other’s preferences and honestly evaluating options can open possibilities for mutual adjustment. A second correspondent renting with a boyfriend is interested in investing in real estate but does not intend to purchase jointly without marriage or engagement.
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