"Unprotected sex requires a deep level of trust and vulnerability. Don't be offended. It's great how responsible you are with your health in general. Many people do not get annual checkups, and a lot of people lie about their health. Of course you hoped you already had that level of trust with your girlfriend. Take this as an opportunity to talk about expectations, commitment and the future with her."
"Talk to her about your values and boundaries as well as what you hope your life with look like with her. Your girlfriend may be letting stories she has heard about other people encroach on your relationship. Sit her down and remind her of your relationship, and invite her to trust that, not any outside forces but also go ahead and get tested for her peace of mind."
Unprotected sex requires a deep level of trust and vulnerability. Annual checkups are responsible but not universal, and some people misrepresent their health. Requesting STI testing can reflect a desire for reassurance rather than outright distrust. Use testing as a practical step that also opens a conversation about expectations, commitment, values, boundaries, and plans for the future. Address any underlying anxieties by reminding one another of the relationship and asking for trust, while also accommodating reasonable safety measures for mutual peace of mind.
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