Dear Abby: What I meant to be a compliment led to a big rift with my son's wife
Briefly

The letter discusses a strained relationship between a grandmother and her daughter-in-law, stemming from misunderstandings and accusations about favoritism. The grandmother acknowledges her misstep in communication, particularly regarding her grandson's behavior during a bullying incident involving his sister. In response, the advice suggests that sincere apologies and a better understanding of family dynamics may help repair the relationship. A secondary concern involves a married woman reflecting on rekindled feelings for her first boyfriend, highlighting the emotional turmoil this brings into her current marriage and urging her to consider the consequences of her actions.
Begin apologizing profusely to her and your son for losing your temper and saying something so hurtful. If you do, it may begin to heal the breach.
Your grandchildren all share the same father, regardless of who their mothers are. Your grandson could have handled the bullying problem better than he did.
While it’s natural to reconnect with past flames, it’s important to remain faithful and consider the impact on your marriage.
You may need to reconsider what you’re seeking from these interactions with your first boyfriend to avoid jeopardizing your current relationship.
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