"They no longer talk to her and have made clear I can't either. I don't think that's right. Michelle has done nothing wrong and has been cordial to us. My wife says to stay out of it and never contact her. I think that's immature. I realize my thoughts don't matter. However, I'm thinking about contacting Michelle to say I feel bad about being in that position and apologize."
"Watching this slow-motion tragedy unfold is agonizing. Not knowing what to say or do compounds the pain. DELIVERING PAINFUL NEWS DEAR DELIVERING: Social isolation is a killer. People in the early to middle stages of dementia are capable of being social. What you should continue to do is be the friend to this couple that you always have been and take your guidance from the wife. She will appreciate your kindness and support during this difficult time."
A man considers contacting his wife's nephew's soon-to-be-ex, Michelle, to show support after his wife's family cut off contact during an amicable divorce with two children. He feels Michelle has done nothing wrong and worries about potential future connections to the children. Advice affirms his maturity and encourages him to act according to his conscience. Friends ask how to approach longtime friends when one is slipping into dementia; advice emphasizes avoiding social isolation, continuing friendship, and taking guidance from the spouse caring for the afflicted partner. Compassion, personal judgment, and sustained social support are recommended.
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