"I am 57 and have never been married. I have had many relationships (some good, some bad). Although in the past I experienced heartbreaks, I am now open to meeting someone new. I recently ended a relationship with Bill, a man I met at a resort casino three years ago. I was happy in the beginning, and then things started to take a turn."
"Honey, if you no longer frequent the places you used to frequent together and keep running into him anyway, has it occurred to you that it's happening because he's still stalking you? If you're still going to the same places, it's time to change your routine. This troubled individual may be the only person who has said I love you, but he won't be the last if you open yourself to other relationships."
A 57-year-old woman who has never married recently ended a three-year relationship with a man she met at a resort casino after his behavior turned problematic. She repeatedly took him back out of guilt, and a neighbor later reported that he was stalking her; she has proof but he denies it. She remains emotionally drawn to him because he was the only man who told her he loved her and fears she will not find that again. Advice offered includes changing routines to avoid encounters, recognizing stalking as dangerous, opening up to other relationships, and seeking free or low-cost counseling through county mental health services or local college psychology departments.
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