"We spent hours together and helped each other sort out our problems. He knew more about me than my wife. With no explanation, he stopped responding to texts and messages and is ignoring my calls. I have come to terms with this and deleted him from my social media and social circles. It's been two years now. The problem is my wife. Everyone else in my family has removed him from their social circles."
"DEAR UNEASY: When you expressed to your wife that she was a big girl and you didn't care if she maintained a relationship with Ian, she regarded it as permission. Did you tell her how deeply you were hurt when Ian ghosted you? If you haven't, it's time you did. I can't predict how she will react, but if she cares about your feelings, she may stop playing games with your former friend."
A man reports that his best friend of over ten years abruptly ghosted him without explanation and ceased all communication. He removed the friend from social media and distanced himself after two years. The man's wife continued online interactions with the former friend, commenting on posts and playing games. The husband initially told her she could decide for herself, then discovered their contact extended beyond gaming. He feels betrayed and fears what the friend might disclose about their private conversations. Advice urges him to clearly express how deeply he was hurt and to ask his wife to stop contacting the former friend.
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