"Continue to avoid your ex, and if you see her, do not acknowledge her. If she approaches you, tell her you are done and to leave you alone. Do not respond to her calls, emails or texts, and if she mails you anything, write return to sender on the package or envelope. Tell your friends that she is stalking you and her behavior is creepy, and then continue dating and resume your social life."
"My ex-girlfriend just can't get a clue. She continues trying to get me back and even goes so far as to stalk me. I blocked her phone number, but it has become exhausting. How do I tell her I don't love her anymore and really no longer even like her? I can't stand her, her family or her friends. She gaslit me for years."
A man reports an ex-girlfriend persistently attempting reconciliation and engaging in stalking behaviors after a relationship built on lies and gaslighting. The recommended actions are to avoid contact, refuse acknowledgment, block communications, mark mailed items 'return to sender', inform friends about stalking, resume previous social and dating life, and involve authorities if she damages property. A separate correspondent describes an 18-year unmarried relationship with limited empathy, lack of gifts and physical affection, emotional eating, and no sexual intimacy for months. The correspondent expresses feeling disconnected and questions how to address the missing emotional and physical closeness.
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