Asking for a friend: My partner wants us to move in together - but he's unemployed and I'm close to getting a mortgage on my own
Briefly

Long-term unemployment can strain relationships, particularly when differing financial attitudes exist. Many couples attempt a 50/50 financial split, but this often fails if incomes are unequal, leading to pressure and resentment. Individuals who are career-driven may struggle with a partner's lack of employment, causing uncertainty regarding the future of the relationship. Key considerations include assessing the impact of financial stability on shared life goals, especially when contemplating cohabitation and future investments like purchasing a home.
Financial issues are one of the top complaints that couples have. Our attitudes to money can vary widely, and often a 50/50 split is attempted but fails in real life.
If a couple has different incomes, a 50/50 split might not work as it can put pressure on both to spend money that's easier for one person than the other, and resentment begins to breed.
Read at Independent
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