Asking for a friend: I've been in a situationship with a guy in college for the last year but now he wants to get serious. I don't think I want to - what should I do?

The individual in a situationship is enjoying life post-college but faces a dilemma as her partner desires a serious relationship. Initially, the casual nature suited her as she focused on her studies. However, with her new job and social opportunities, she feels hesitant about commitment, especially since her partner admits to harboring feelings he previously kept secret. This scenario highlights the importance of open communication in situationships, where misunderstandings can lead to tension if expectations change unilaterally.

Situationships can be ideal for some people, if a lot of unspoken rules are followed, despite the casual-seeming nature of the interactions.

For any casual situationship, friends with benefits, lovers - whatever you want to call them - there are non-negotiables that will doom the experience.

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