"Not all dating is created equal; it can serve different purposes depending on where you are in your life. You might be just coming out of a previous relationship and know you're not ready for anything serious yet; you're looking for someone to go dancing with, attend concerts with, or just help you have a reason to get out of the house on weekends."
"#1: Are our goals the same? If you're seeking a weekend playmate and the other person is interested in a serious long-term relationship, you're clearly at cross purposes from the start. There will be tension as each of you tries to sway the other to your side. That said, some couples are equally ambivalent, unsure of exactly what they want and need right now, and both are willing to "see what happens." That's fine; you're balanced, and you're both emotionally in sync."
Dating serves different purposes at different life stages, from casual companionship to rebuilding confidence to seeking a long-term partner. Compatibility depends on aligned goals, shared interests, similar visions and values, and the ability to solve problems together. Emotional safety and authenticity are essential so partners can be themselves rather than walking on eggshells. Relying on a single shared activity creates a fragile foundation if circumstances change. Clear understanding of each person’s desired level of commitment prevents mismatched expectations and tension. Assessing compatibility involves asking practical questions about goals, interests, values, and long-term vision to determine whether two people are a good fit.
Read at Psychology Today
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