"Having an open marriage can be a lot of fun. It also baffles a lot of people. Some folks actually get angry because you're okay with other people touching or having sex with your spouse, but they never actually have a reason for that outside of, 'It doesn't match MY beliefs, so you're wrong!' We've been married for six years, together for nine. We're still open, still having a blast."
"You don't own your partner's body, and while you can and should communicate your boundaries and preferences, you can't decide for them. You can, very easily, inform their decisions by letting them know what you want and need in your relationship. Tell your partner honestly, early on, how much importance you place on sex. For most people, having a private, unique connection in the bedroom is critical."
Open marriages can offer fun and sexual variety while provoking confusion or anger from others who apply personal beliefs. Partners do not own each other's bodies, so explicit communication of boundaries and preferences is essential. Partners can influence choices by clearly expressing wants and needs, especially regarding the importance of sex. For many individuals, a private, unique sexual connection is critical; for others, sex is largely recreational and other factors like quality time and mutual treatment determine relationship viability. Compatibility about sexual values and relationship priorities must be established well before marriage.
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