Is it really so bad to be fake at work?

"Faking tends to get a bad rap. We celebrate authenticity, praise, and honesty, and preach radical transparency -as if the workplace would magically improve if everyone walked around expressing their unfiltered "true selves." But, imagine for a moment what unedited human authenticity would actually look like in a corporate setting: colleagues announcing every irritation, managers confessing every insecurity, leaders sharing every impulsive thought or half-baked opinion. Actually, that doesn't look overly different from many workplaces!"

"For that reason, "faking good," or engaging in strategic self-presentation (adjusting your behavior in order to sacrifice your right of self-expression for the benefit of others, and in turn, yourself), is far more common than we think. Most professionals engage in small, strategic acts of self-editing or impression management every single day; and the best ones are so good at it that they come across as authentic."

Faking receives negative judgment despite widespread benefits in professional contexts. Unfiltered authenticity in corporate settings would produce constant irritation, insecurity, and impulsive disclosures that harm relationships and reputations. Strategic self-editing, or "faking good," involves adjusting behavior to prioritize others' needs and one’s own long-term interests. Most professionals practice small acts of impression management daily, such as polite smiles or projecting confidence. Highly skilled self-editing can appear authentic while smoothing interactions, preserving reputation, and facilitating teamwork. Total honesty functions as a reputational hazard rather than an unqualified virtue in workplace environments.

Read at Fast Company