I Was Ready to Write About My Domestic Abuser-Then Lawyers Said No.
Briefly

In her memoir, Chelsea Devantez begins with her experience in a teenage relationship marked by domestic violence but faces legal restrictions that hinder her from naming her abuser. This obstacle prompts her to shift the focus of her writing from personal narrative to a broader critique of societal systems that silence survivors. She also discusses how a complex PTSD diagnosis has helped her understand her personality traits, family secrets, and experiences in a male-dominated comedy scene, ultimately aiming to highlight the issues survivors face and challenge oppressive systems.
When I started my memoir, I focused on a teenage relationship that led to domestic violence. However, I couldn’t legally name my abuser. This led me to rethink my narrative.
Instead of telling my story, I’d convey how our systems work to silence survivors of domestic abuse. My approach evolved, focusing on broader societal issues rather than just my personal trauma.
My complex PTSD diagnosis shed light on my bewildering personality traits and family dynamics, revealing underlying issues like friendship breakups and secrets that complicated my experience in comedy.
In my memoir, I aim to highlight the challenges faced by survivors and challenge the systems that perpetuate silence, exploring my journey and how it intersects with societal norms.
Read at Slate Magazine
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