What's the Best Way to Tell Kids About Divorce?

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Parents should use clear, age-appropriate, and reassuring language when explaining divorce to children. The explanation should emphasize ongoing love and stability, avoid blaming either parent, and preserve predictable routines to reduce anxiety. Adults should acknowledge children's feelings honestly without sharing unnecessary adult details. Practical communication pitfalls include confusing or alarming phrasing and inconsistent messages. Everyday parenting experiences can include small logistical failures—like shoe-shopping mishaps and derailed Friday-night plans—as well as small victories such as a smooth school drop-off. Additional support and content are available via email [e-mail], phone [phone], and a subscription at slate.com/careplus.

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