The advice column addresses a parent's concern over her grandmother-in-law's belief that preparing for a baby's arrival brings bad luck. The article suggests respecting her feelings while also establishing boundaries around the conversation. It emphasizes the harmless nature of the superstition and recommends redirecting dialogue towards seeking wisdom from her, rather than engaging in discussions about nursery plans, ultimately guiding the discussion in a more positive direction. The advice encourages a polite dismissal of outdated beliefs to maintain family harmony.
If she brings them up, let her know that you respect her thoughts, but you've made your own decision, and then change the subject.
Perhaps you can redirect her by asking what sorts of things she thinks you should be doing to prepare for the baby.
This won't be an issue for much longer. Politely tell her 'Okay, Boomer' (in gentler words!) and move on.
Older people tend to believe many things we don't agree with; some are terrible and dangerous, but this particular belief is rather harmless.
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