The letter from "Angry at the Other Woman" details her husband's repeated infidelities, leading to her decision for divorce. She grapples with whether to inform the other woman's husband about her affair with her own husband. Despite feeling justified in wanting to expose the betrayal, the advice suggests prioritizing her own healing over punishing the other woman. The counselor emphasizes that dwelling on revenge may hinder her recovery from years of emotional pain caused by infidelity.
Don't tell him. I hate that you were hurt and betrayed and in a totally fair world, your husband's affair partner would not get away with lying to her spouse. But you're not the chief justice of a relationship court... You're a person who's survived a hellish marriage and who needs to focus on herself.
I'm less concerned with what's ethical and more concerned with what course of action will facilitate your healing from three decades of infidelity.
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