In a recent situation, an 8-year-old named Riley defended her Jewish cousin Eliza from a derogatory remark made by a neighbor, resulting in a physical altercation. The parents of the other child demanded an apology from Riley, yet the column suggests that this incident serves as an opportunity to discuss the importance of non-violent responses to bullying and prejudice. While Riley shouldn’t be encouraged to use violence, it's crucial to affirm her instinct to stand up for Eliza, guiding her toward effective communication instead.
I think this is a fine occasion to talk to your 8-year-old about the effectiveness of a devastating comeback versus resorting to physical violence.
She should apologize to Eric for giving him a split lip. But only after she fully understands that while he was being an asshole, she should have used her words.
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