My child was defiant from the start. I wouldn't have it any other way.
Briefly

The article explores the challenges faced by a parent whose son frequently questions authority and rigid rules. Initially concerned about his defiance and the judgment from other parents, the mother grapples with her frustrations and is forced to evaluate her own parenting style. Seeking help through therapy, she discovers positive parenting principles that emphasize understanding over control. As her son’s academic struggles and emotional withdrawal deepen, she learns to foster his individuality, leading to a healthier parent-child relationship rooted in mutual respect and open communication.
Positive parenting transformed my perspective, encouraging me to focus on understanding my son rather than controlling him, ultimately fostering a healthier parent-child relationship.
Each 'no' was met with my son's stubborn 'why', reflecting a desire for understanding rather than outright rebellion, pushing me to reconsider my parenting approach.
I had to confront my frustration: did I want a child who followed rules blindly, or a critical thinker who could question and challenge societal norms?
Despite my efforts to direct him, my son's creativity struggled under the weight of rigid rules, revealing the need for a more open approach.
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