The author reflects on the pressures of motherhood, specifically the desire to be her children's primary mentor. Despite feeling the need to be their sole source of support, she learns that it’s acceptable for them to seek advice from other loving figures, such as her mother and sister. After moving in with them, she witnesses her daughters receiving comfort and guidance from family members, revealing that support can come from various loving relationships, relieving some of her parental burdens.
I wanted to be their primary mentor. But living with my mom and sister has taught me it's OK to let them help out.
Sometimes, another woman who loves them might even be a better choice than me. My mother sat with my daughter, listening and offering advice.
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