Dr. John Gottman emphasizes the shift away from authoritarian parenting, advocating for a more nurturing approach where parents reinforce children's logical thinking. He highlights a TikTok moment that illustrates this change, where a child reasoned for a cookie. Gottman believes fostering independent thought in children helps prevent unhealthy relationships, especially for girls. He shares a personal anecdote about his daughter’s empowered decision to end a controlling relationship as an example of the critical thinking skills he values in parenting.
"Instead of responding with, 'You can't have a cookie because I said so,' they reinforced her for being logical, and it makes me very happy to see that."
"We want kids who say, 'I don't agree with this, and here's why.' This critical thinking is essential in raising independent children."
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