A professional Irish footballer shares his journey of autism diagnosis at 33, paralleling his experience with that of his daughter, Willow-Ivy. He reflects on the differences he observed in Willow, identifying similarities between them that prompted his decision to seek a diagnosis. The process illuminated his past, helping him understand both his and his daughter's experiences with autism. This revelation not only impacted his life and career but also fostered a deeper bond with Willow, highlighting the importance of family as their 'safe space.'
Autism was something that I never knew too much about, even though it had been with me forever. I was diagnosed as autistic in 2023, having had our daughter, Willow-Ivy, diagnosed previously.
When I decided to go through the diagnosis process, it was because there were so many similarities between Willow and me. I had thought about it for a long time.
I recognized that her family was her 'safe space', which mirrored my experiences. It was a poignant realization that deepened my understanding of both our journeys.
This journey of understanding autism has not just revealed my own identity but also strengthened the bond between me and my daughter.
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